Comments for Journeys from the Heart http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com Your Love Advice Coach Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:47:02 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Oneness Blessing by Andria http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2010/02/01/oneness-blessing/#comment-88 Andria Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:47:02 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=181#comment-88 By following where you needed to go and what you needed to do you gave me the courage to do the same. Our history together has morphed in ways neither one of us could ever predict! Thank you, Love, A By following where you needed to go and what you needed to do you gave me the courage to do the same. Our history together has morphed in ways neither one of us could ever predict! Thank you, Love, A

]]> Comment on Freedom From Abuse: Finding Yourself Again! by heartjourneys http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/freedom-from-abuse-finding-yourself-again/#comment-87 heartjourneys Tue, 05 Jan 2010 16:56:54 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?page_id=166#comment-87 Yes! It is written for women, but I've had 2 men so far who are amazed at how it applies. Like with Transcending Divorce, you just really have to change the gender in your mind as you are going through it. You can download it at www.LoveAdviceCoach.com or write me and I'll order it for you through Lulu. lori@attorney-coach.com Lori Yes! It is written for women, but I’ve had 2 men so far who are amazed at how it applies. Like with Transcending Divorce, you just really have to change the gender in your mind as you are going through it.

You can download it at http://www.LoveAdviceCoach.com or write me and I’ll order it for you through Lulu. lori@attorney-coach.com

Lori

]]> Comment on Freedom From Abuse: Finding Yourself Again! by Thorsten May http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/freedom-from-abuse-finding-yourself-again/#comment-86 Thorsten May Tue, 05 Jan 2010 13:33:24 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?page_id=166#comment-86 Will this book also work for men? Will this book also work for men?

]]> Comment on Welcome to Lori’s Blog! by Samantha http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2008/09/07/welcome-to-lori%e2%80%99s-blog/#comment-85 Samantha Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:46:35 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=3#comment-85 nice blog. I'll be back. nice blog. I’ll be back.

]]> Comment on Open letter to Elin Woods and others who have been hurt by JSin http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2009/12/22/open-letter-to-elin-woods-and-others-who-have-been-hurt/#comment-84 JSin Thu, 24 Dec 2009 16:14:56 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=176#comment-84 Good post. I like your style. Good post. I like your style.

]]> Comment on Are the Creditors Winning? by Ursula http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/are-the-creditors-winning/#comment-83 Ursula Tue, 27 Oct 2009 05:49:46 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=153#comment-83 This is so familiar. I've been going through the same nightmare with Wells Fargo for MONTHS, trying to get a loan modification. I was told to call every week, which I've been doing, and every time I call I get somebody different and their "story" is totally different from what the rest of the robots in their call centers have been telling me. I was on the phone for 2-1/2 hours last time I called. I asked if the first customer service rep would stay on the phone when she transfered me to whoever supposedly is handling this mess, and after we were on the phone that long, trying to make some sense of what the loan mitigation robot was saying, the customer service woman said she was going to report this to their corporate office. Who knows if she ever did. It's been 8 months, at least, since I started this nightmare. This is so familiar. I’ve been going through the same nightmare with Wells Fargo for MONTHS, trying to get a loan modification. I was told to call every week, which I’ve been doing, and every time I call I get somebody different and their “story” is totally different from what the rest of the robots in their call centers have been telling me. I was on the phone for 2-1/2 hours last time I called. I asked if the first customer service rep would stay on the phone when she transfered me to whoever supposedly is handling this mess, and after we were on the phone that long, trying to make some sense of what the loan mitigation robot was saying, the customer service woman said she was going to report this to their corporate office. Who knows if she ever did. It’s been 8 months, at least, since I started this nightmare.

]]> Comment on Are the Creditors Winning? by riversoflove http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/are-the-creditors-winning/#comment-82 riversoflove Mon, 19 Oct 2009 20:17:13 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=153#comment-82 Hi Lori, Check out Ron Burley's book Unscrewed. He is brilliant. One of the things he suggests you can do is buy one share of stock in your company and which gives you the right to tell your entire story at the next shareholders meeting. That ought to get their attention ... But also get his book. It is fabulous. Aloha, David Leonard Hi Lori,

Check out Ron Burley’s book Unscrewed. He is brilliant.

One of the things he suggests you can do is buy one share of stock in your company and which gives you the right to tell your entire story at the next shareholders meeting.

That ought to get their attention …

But also get his book. It is fabulous.

Aloha,

David Leonard

]]> Comment on Are the Creditors Winning? by BDO http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/are-the-creditors-winning/#comment-81 BDO Wed, 30 Sep 2009 01:27:19 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=153#comment-81 Debt is economic slavery. Debt is economic slavery.

]]> Comment on Love Means What? by Ken http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/love-means-what/#comment-80 Ken Fri, 18 Sep 2009 17:19:13 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=146#comment-80 Dear Coach, You are conflicted between what we are all taught growing up, that marriage is based on the wonderful blissful kingdom of love--the fairy tale of happily ever after--and what is reality. Marriage has nothing to do with successful relationships but we relate success in relationship to a standard in society. I keep looking but never can find the one who sets the standards. If I could I am sure I could do away with stigma such as same sex relationships, anger towards certain religions, political partisanships (now that would be a big one) and my personal favorite…Yankee and Red Sox haters. Your description sounds as if you and he would be wonderfully happy if you lived in a ghetto. Isn’t a wonderful house just a ghetto on a different scale? Perceptions create perspective create opinions (create standards?) I had a friend in Virginia who was married a few times and said as a joke but with the depths of hurt and realism (realism from his point of view) “the next time I fall in love I am just going to buy the woman a house and leave...that is the way it ends up anyway." The guys laughed but I sensed a deeper feel to him, the pain, the confusion, the hopelessness of trying to live up to standards and putting a price tag on emotions. We define ourselves not buy what we think but by what society thinks and that thinking is implanted in us at a very early age. Implanted along with things like our names, what a good boy or girl is, and what religion we should practice. These standards are also based on what was implanted in our parents, family, friends and teachers. These are tough standards to ignore or push aside. The value in the relationship is not in the title or the status. It is much deeper than that. "Live as if you are loved because you are loved" Your former client and dear friend Ken D. Dear Coach,

You are conflicted between what we are all taught growing up, that marriage is based on the wonderful blissful kingdom of love–the fairy tale of happily ever after–and what is reality.

Marriage has nothing to do with successful relationships but we relate success in relationship to a standard in society.

I keep looking but never can find the one who sets the standards. If I could I am sure I could do away with stigma such as same sex relationships, anger towards certain religions, political partisanships (now that would be a big one) and my personal favorite…Yankee and Red Sox haters.

Your description sounds as if you and he would be wonderfully happy if you lived in a ghetto. Isn’t a wonderful house just a ghetto on a different scale? Perceptions create perspective create opinions (create standards?)

I had a friend in Virginia who was married a few times and said as a joke but with the depths of hurt and realism (realism from his point of view) “the next time I fall in love I am just going to buy the woman a house and leave…that is the way it ends up anyway.”

The guys laughed but I sensed a deeper feel to him, the pain, the confusion, the hopelessness of trying to live up to standards and putting a price tag on emotions.

We define ourselves not buy what we think but by what society thinks and that thinking is implanted in us at a very early age. Implanted along with things like our names, what a good boy or girl is, and what religion we should practice.

These standards are also based on what was implanted in our parents, family, friends and teachers. These are tough standards to ignore or push aside.

The value in the relationship is not in the title or the status. It is much deeper than that.

“Live as if you are loved because you are loved”

Your former client and dear friend

Ken D.

]]> Comment on Love Means What? by Terri http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/love-means-what/#comment-79 Terri Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:45:33 +0000 http://heartjourneys.wordpress.com/?p=146#comment-79 Get in the boat, paddle and laugh. Enjoy the ride in the free flow. Even if it is not familiar and perhaps especially if it is uncharted territory for you. With Love and Respect from a friend. Get in the boat, paddle and laugh. Enjoy the ride in the free flow. Even if it is not familiar and perhaps especially if it is uncharted territory for you. With Love and Respect from a friend.

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