Finding Love this new year
Here is a request for help and my response:
My goal for the New Year is to find the love of my life. I am
familiar with getting clear on my vision and my requirements,
needs and wants. Beyond that, what types of things should I be
doing to get myself ready for great things to happen in my love
life?
Catherine from Carlsbad
Dear Catherine,
The real key in finding the love of your life is to BE the love of your life. I am sure you’ve heard this before, but ask yourself if you were stuck with only you on a desert Island, would you have good company? You know how attractive happy and positive people are? That’s what you want. So, look at it like getting ready for a marathon, you have one or two months to get in shape, what are you tolerating in your life that you are sick and tired of? Get rid of it. Are you happy with your health, your body, your job? If not, what are you going to do about it? It’s great that you have your lists prepared, now put them aside and take real action. Let friends and husbands of friends know you are ready for your mate. Go out and do things you love to do, meet new people…basically, have fun, laugh, and play. Before you know it, your mate will appear.
Lori
Dear Lori.
I do not think that we “find” a love at the moment we want to. Love is a thing that happens naturally when it has to. Looking for it is just a waste of time and energy. In my opinion you shuold love yourself, hang out with your girls and be happy, naturally love will flow into your life and heart.
Regars from Brazil, Pam.
pamviana
January 11, 2011
I think it is a beautiful thing to find love, and if it flows naturally into your life, perfect!
Some people go looking for it like a job, seriously reviewing on-line want-ad’s for example, and I heard a statistic, I’m not sure if it is true, that 1/5 of all matches are now made on line.
Either way, Love is a good thing, and starting by loving yourself, and your life, and being a happy single person will hopefully attract another healthy, happy single person!
heartjourneys
January 11, 2011